IS THIS MARRIAGE THING REALLY FOR ME?The TALK
Marital Relationship Class Course Of Self Actualization and Personal Therapy Program (Quantum Leap Consulting)
[5/1, 16:07] @doctormichaels: Good evening everyone
[5/1, 16:07] @doctormichaels: You are welcome ...how has been your day
[5/1, 16:07] @doctormichaels: If you are ready...please indicate with an emoji
[5/1, 16:07] Participant: Good after noon Sir
[5/1, 16:07] Participant: 🌹
[5/1, 16:08] @doctormichaels: We need 9 more
[5/1, 16:10] Participant: 💊
[5/1, 16:10] SPoKEN WORD PRESENTATION by D'voice
5/1, 16:32] @doctormichaels: Is This Marriage Thing Really For Me
It's going to be a 45minutes to 1hour chat between you and I.I want you to imagine that only two of us are in a room used for our therapy sessions.
Please feel free to say anything in-between...feel free to stop me at any point to ask a question or pass any comment or express yourself in any way.
Please don't post any broadcast or advertisement...this is a crucial hour
[5/1, 16:32] @doctormichaels: Am I communicating?
[5/1, 16:33] Participant: Yes Doc
[5/1, 16:33] Participant: Yes doc
[5/1, 16:33] Participant: Yes sir
[5/1, 16:33] Participant: Yessssssss
[5/1, 16:33] Participant: Yes sir
[5/1, 16:34] @doctormichaels: Introduction
I was 4years old when I witnessed my father beat my mother...of course that affected me greatly.
[5/1, 16:35] Participant: 😭
[5/1, 16:35] @doctormichaels: It took me 14years( minimum) to deal with the aftermath of that since there was no professional
[5/1, 16:35] @doctormichaels: But now,I can use my experience and training to help many people who are going through what I have gone through
[5/1, 16:36] @doctormichaels: I am aware that a lot of us on this page carry a lot of pain
[5/1, 16:36] @doctormichaels: I have spoken to almost everybody in all the pages
[5/1, 16:36] Participant: Yeah
[5/1, 16:36] @doctormichaels: Forgive me if I have not contacted you
[5/1, 16:36] Participant: Hmmmm
[5/1, 16:37] Participant: You have been forgiven sir..........
[5/1, 16:37] Participant: Hmmm
[5/1, 16:37] @doctormichaels: Its a deep fact to know that the major part of our pains can be traced to our past childhood traumatic experiences
[5/1, 16:37] @doctormichaels: It broke us
[5/1, 16:37] @doctormichaels: Damaged us
[5/1, 16:37] Participant: Must be quite something....
[5/1, 16:38] @doctormichaels: Made us cry
[5/1, 16:38] @doctormichaels: Chai...I used to cry at nights
[5/1, 16:38] @doctormichaels: No one to to talk to about my pains
[5/1, 16:38] Participant: 😭
[5/1, 16:38] @doctormichaels: I had identity crisis
[5/1, 16:38] @doctormichaels: Couldn't even talk about myself
[5/1, 16:38] @doctormichaels: Was very shy
[5/1, 16:39] @doctormichaels: Couldn't even ask a lady out
[5/1, 16:39] @doctormichaels: It was that bad
[5/1, 16:39] Participant: Oh no
[5/1, 16:39] @doctormichaels: A lot of people who have gone through this pain from childhood without help end up manifesting extreme features
[5/1, 16:40] Participant: Ehya......
[5/1, 16:40] Participant: So bad
[5/1, 16:40] @doctormichaels: Such as being in multiple relationships so as to deal with the pain
[5/1, 16:40] @doctormichaels: Some had experiences such as rape
[5/1, 16:41] @doctormichaels: Physical or verbal abuse
[5/1, 16:41] Participant: Exactly
[5/1, 16:41] @doctormichaels: This kept on repeating itself in our lives...so we jump from one partner to another
[5/1, 16:41] @doctormichaels: Sincerely looking for help
[5/1, 16:41] @doctormichaels: But in doing that,we try to please our partners
[5/1, 16:42] @doctormichaels: Ready to do anything and everything with him or her just so that we could get healing from our partners
[5/1, 16:42] @doctormichaels: partners
[5/1, 16:42] Participant: Inferiority complex do set in sometimes too sir.
[5/1, 16:42] @doctormichaels: Chai
[5/1, 16:43] Participant: Hmm that's serious
[5/1, 16:43] @doctormichaels: We did a lot of things we were not proud of
[5/1, 16:43] @doctormichaels: So instead of getting healing by pleasing our partner ...our wound deepened
[5/1, 16:43] @doctormichaels: Widened
[5/1, 16:43] Participant: I dig.......
[5/1, 16:43] @doctormichaels: Until it became a sore
[5/1, 16:44] Participant: Seriously
[5/1, 16:44] @doctormichaels: Until,we lost our self worth
[5/1, 16:44] @doctormichaels: Self belie f
[5/1, 16:44] @doctormichaels: belief
[5/1, 16:44] @doctormichaels: We lost our dignity
[5/1, 16:44] @doctormichaels: We are trapped
[5/1, 16:44] Participant: Hmmm
[5/1, 16:44] @doctormichaels: Addicted to sex
[5/1, 16:44] Participant: Prestige
[5/1, 16:44] @doctormichaels: sex..
[5/1, 16:44] @doctormichaels: We became another person entirely
[5/1, 16:45] @doctormichaels: Self confidence gone
[5/1, 16:45] @doctormichaels: We became addicted to drugs
[5/1, 16:45] @doctormichaels: We had all kinds of sexual fantasies
[5/1, 16:45] @doctormichaels: Different positions
[5/1, 16:46] @doctormichaels: We got tired....we invented other sex positions
[5/1, 16:46] @doctormichaels: But still ....the pain lingers
[5/1, 16:46] @doctormichaels: The tears are becoming as thick as blood
[5/1, 16:46] Participant: Hmmm
[5/1, 16:46] @doctormichaels: We can't even share our pains with our parents
[5/1, 16:47] @doctormichaels: We are something else during the day
[5/1, 16:47] @doctormichaels: And another at night
[5/1, 16:47] Participant: Word..... Hmmmm.
[5/1, 16:47] @doctormichaels: Hmmmm
[5/1, 16:47] @doctormichaels: We got married
[5/1, 16:47] Participant: Hmmmm
[5/1, 16:48] @doctormichaels: But the extreme drive for sex or drugs or drinks that gave us relief continued even when we got married
[5/1, 16:48] @doctormichaels: We start demanding for all sorts ...
[5/1, 16:49] @doctormichaels: Demanding that our partner or spouse help us fill in the void
[5/1, 16:49] @doctormichaels: They do ...the drugs , sex ,drinks actually do
[5/1, 16:50] @doctormichaels: But the it's temporary
[5/1, 16:50] @doctormichaels: The truth is that marriage was not designed to fill in the void
[5/1, 16:50] @doctormichaels: Marriage does not have that kind of capacity
[5/1, 16:51] @doctormichaels: The greatest mistake ever is to make a relationship or marital decision when we are not yet whole
[5/1, 16:51] Participant: Then of what use is marriage
[5/1, 16:51] @doctormichaels: Marriage was designed for whole people
[5/1, 16:52] Participant: Whole??
[5/1, 16:52] @doctormichaels: There are 4 purposes of marriage
[5/1, 16:52] Participant: How do you know when one is whole
[5/1, 16:52] Participant: Who are these whole people you are talking about
[5/1, 16:52] @doctormichaels: 1. Companionship
[5/1, 16:52] @doctormichaels: 2. Sexual intimacy to boosts communication
[5/1, 16:53] @doctormichaels: 3. Procreation
[5/1, 16:53] Participant: Don't whole people become broken on the journey too?
[5/1, 16:53] @doctormichaels: The 4th is actually the ultimate reason
[5/1, 16:53] Participant: Explain these
[5/1, 16:53] Participant: Yess
[5/1, 16:54] @doctormichaels: Which is to help each other fulfill their life assignments
[5/1, 16:54] @doctormichaels: Whole people have mastered their lives
[5/1, 16:54] Participant: 👌
[5/1, 16:55] @doctormichaels: To the point that they can deal with the life issues
[5/1, 16:56] @doctormichaels: It's suicidal to look to our partners or spouses to take the wheels of our lives to navigate our lives
[5/1, 16:56] @doctormichaels: They are only there not to take the chief positions in our lives but to only help,assist,take the passenger seat
[5/1, 16:56] @doctormichaels: The same is God
[5/1, 16:57] @doctormichaels: God will never take the driver's seat of our lives...
[5/1, 16:57] @doctormichaels: He will only help us
[5/1, 16:57] Participant: 👍🏽
[5/1, 16:57] @doctormichaels: But you can't help someone who doesn't know where he or she is going to
[5/1, 16:58] Participant. Hmm..That's right
[5/1, 16:58] Participant: Humm
[5/1, 16:58] @doctormichaels: Therefore,before starting a relationship,we need to know where we are going to in life as an individual
[5/1, 16:58] Participant: Hmmm
[5/1, 16:59] Participant: 👍🏿
[5/1, 16:59] @doctormichaels: It is this knowing ....that determines the person that comes on board as a friend and also as a companion
[5/1, 16:59] @doctormichaels: A friend is different from a life companion
[5/1, 16:59] Participant: True...
[5/1, 16:59] Participant: Hmmmm😢
[5/1, 16:59] Participant: 👌🏿
[5/1, 17:00] @doctormichaels: A friend might be going in our direction for a while but when the person gets to the point of taking another direction ...the person will have to leave us on our journey in life
[5/1, 17:00] @doctormichaels: Whoever wants to leave you now....you need to let them go
[5/1, 17:01] @doctormichaels: We need to learn the art of letting go
[5/1, 17:01] Participant: For real......
[5/1, 17:01] Participant: Okay
[5/1, 17:01] Participant: 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
[5/1, 17:01] @doctormichaels: We must learn how to balance being dependent on others and at the same time be independent
[5/1, 17:01] Participant: Really
[5/1, 17:02] @doctormichaels: No human being has the capability to make us happy
[5/1, 17:02] Participant: The Art of Letting Go! 🤔
[5/1, 17:02] Participant: Sir, someone is asking on the other group to tell us more about sexual intimacy and communication
[5/1, 17:02] @doctormichaels: No matter the love they have for us
[5/1, 17:02] Participant: Increase the volume Doc!
[5/1, 17:02] Participant: Have asked him before
[5/1, 17:02] @doctormichaels: Sexual intimacy complements communication between the married couples
[5/1, 17:03] @doctormichaels: But sexual intimacy does not replace effective communication ...neither does effective communication replace sexual intimacy
[5/1, 17:04] Participant: Exactly
[5/1, 17:04] @doctormichaels: Sexual intimacy can be described as love making between two married couples
[5/1, 17:05] @doctormichaels: There is more to the physical exchange
[5/1, 17:05] @doctormichaels: Their whole being is involved
[5/1, 17:05] Participant: 👌🏻
[5/1, 17:05] @doctormichaels: It's actually the mechanism that helps form and reinforce the oneness of both parties
[5/1, 17:06] @doctormichaels: They start looking alike
[5/1, 17:06] @doctormichaels: Thinking alike
[5/1, 17:06] @doctormichaels: Acting alike
[5/1, 17:06] @doctormichaels: The gap between them due to them coming from two different upbringing is closed gradually
[5/1, 17:07] Participant: Hmmmm
[5/1, 17:07] @doctormichaels: So the purpose of sex is clear
[5/1, 17:07] @doctormichaels: To be one with your spouse
[5/1, 17:07] @doctormichaels: It becomes easier to work together
[5/1, 17:07] Participant: Truth
[5/1, 17:07] @doctormichaels: We can face the same direction easily
[5/1, 17:08] @doctormichaels: No matter the physical distance ....we are still one
[5/1, 17:08] @doctormichaels: So ,if I have not known myself
[5/1, 17:09] Participant: Hmm
[5/1, 17:09] Participant: Confirm
[5/1, 17:09] @doctormichaels: I have not answered the 3 fundamental questions of life ...and deal with my traumatic past from my childhood till now...I am a bomb that will soon explode
[5/1, 17:09] @doctormichaels: I'm on a suicidal journey
[5/1, 17:10] @doctormichaels: To now go ahead and start a relationship just ends up compounding my case
[5/1, 17:10] @doctormichaels: Broken people attract broken people
[5/1, 17:10] @doctormichaels: While whole people attract whole people
[5/1, 17:10] Participant: Humm
[5/1, 17:10] Participant: Since the impact of sex improves our oneness, can we say the same for unmarried folks? At least sex is sex anywhere
[5/1, 17:11] Participant: *Question from group 2*
[5/1, 17:11] @doctormichaels: A companion is the person who is going our direction all the way
[5/1, 17:11] @doctormichaels: 😀😀😀😀
[5/1, 17:11] @doctormichaels: Thank you for that question
[5/1, 17:11] @doctormichaels: It's an intelligent one
[5/1, 17:12] @doctormichaels: First and foremost,sex comes with a responsibility
[5/1, 17:12] @doctormichaels: Infact, responsibilities
[5/1, 17:12] @doctormichaels: We are not just exchanging physical fluids
[5/1, 17:12] @doctormichaels: We are exchanging much more
[5/1, 17:12] Participant: 👍🏿
[5/1, 17:13] @doctormichaels: Emotionally ,spiritually , psychologically
[5/1, 17:13] @doctormichaels: Menhhh
[5/1, 17:13] @doctormichaels: A lot goes on during sex
[5/1, 17:13] @doctormichaels: And so it's a personal question
[5/1, 17:13] @doctormichaels: Am I ready to go into that ...
[5/1, 17:14] @doctormichaels: Am I reading to bear the responsibilities attached
[5/1, 17:14] @doctormichaels: Of course in addition to unwanted pregnancies ,abortion and sexual transmitted diseases
[5/1, 17:14] @doctormichaels: During my sessions
[5/1, 17:15] @doctormichaels: I dont talk about whether sex before marriage or an extra-marital affair is good or not
[5/1, 17:15] @doctormichaels: Right or wrong
[5/1, 17:16] @doctormichaels: From data and experiences ,a huge number of pre marital sex and extra-marital affairs are due to many other causes
[5/1, 17:16] @doctormichaels: Who am I
[5/1, 17:17] @doctormichaels: What is my life assignments...why am here ...why was I born during covid 19 era
[5/1, 17:17] @doctormichaels: The third has two parts
[5/1, 17:17] @doctormichaels: Do I have a future ?
B. How do I explore my future possibilities
[5/1, 17:18] @doctormichaels: There is no way I can answer these 3 questions and be totally dependent on anybody
[5/1, 17:18] @doctormichaels: There is no way I can answer these questions and wake up depressed
[5/1, 17:19] @doctormichaels: My perspective about life and people changes
[5/1, 17:19] @doctormichaels: I automatically move from the zone of victims to the zone of those who are ready to help other people
[5/1, 17:19] @doctormichaels: We can't give what we don't have
[5/1, 17:20] @doctormichaels: It has been proven from our therapy sessions that mere asking ourselves these questions alone is therapeutic
[5/1, 17:21] @doctormichaels: If we now go ahead to answer them...we become super stars over night
[5/1, 17:21] @doctormichaels: It does not really matter if you get the questions right ...at least at first
[5/1, 17:21] @doctormichaels: But just ask
[5/1, 17:22] @doctormichaels: Am I communicating
[5/1, 17:22] @doctormichaels: Can you still take more 10mins talk
[5/1, 17:22] @doctormichaels: Or I should stop here ?
[5/1, 17:22] Participant: Continue
[5/1, 17:22] Participant: Continue sir
[5/1, 17:22] Participant: Yes sir
Go on
[5/1, 17:23] Participant: NOO, please continue sir
Participant: Continue sir
[5/1, 17:23] @doctormichaels: Okay
[5/1, 17:23] @doctormichaels: Let's talk for 10minutes and then I will round off and open the floor for questions
[5/1, 17:24] @doctormichaels: Before getting into a relationship
There are certain things you must do with yourself and also do with your partner when you start the relationship
[5/1, 17:24] @doctormichaels: I will talk about that
[5/1, 17:24) Participant: Please do sir,
Will love to know
[5/1, 17:25] Participant: Please do sir, can't wait to hear that
[5/1, 17:26] @doctormichaels: I will also talk about what married people should do together and also the true hierarchy including the issue of leadership and submission if time permits us
[5/1, 17:26] Participant: Anticipating
[5/1, 17:26] @doctormichaels: The third thing i will talk about is the issue of love ,personality and past traumatic experiences
[5/1, 17:27] @doctormichaels: Please remind me if i leave any one of them out
[5/1, 17:27] @doctormichaels: Thank you
[5/1, 17:27] Participant: Alright sir
[5/1, 17:28] @doctormichaels: Many people were raped at tender ages ....some lacked parental care and attention....don't forget that the only way a child interprets love is quality time and attention from his or her parents
[5/1, 17:29] @doctormichaels: So underlying many sexual drives before marriage are many issues that only a professional help can resolve
[5/1, 17:30] @doctormichaels: So it's wrong to judge or condemn people because they have sex before getting married...
[5/1, 17:30] @doctormichaels: Just because you didn't or don't
[5/1, 17:30] @doctormichaels: People are going through a lot and the last thing you want to do is to judge or condemn the person
[5/1, 17:31] @doctormichaels: The person has gone through psychological trauma that is not visible a naked eye
[5/1, 17:31] @doctormichaels: So even if the person wants to stop....it's difficult
[5/1, 17:31] Participant: 👂🏽
[5/1, 17:32] @doctormichaels: Hence the need for a professional help to bring about Psychological healing that the person needs so urgent ly
[5/1, 17:32] Participant: 👌
[5/1, 17:33] Participant: What if such individuals fail to acknowledge that they have an issue, not to say considering seeing a therapist.
How can the person be helped?
[5/1, 17:33] @doctormichaels: In Quantum Leap Consulting,we came up with a regimen called delete and replacement therapy regimen that allows people to go into their past and undo the past traumatic experiences and become free from the negative effect it has on them
[5/1, 17:34] @doctormichaels: We have seen wonders through this regimen
[5/1, 17:35] @doctormichaels: I usually ask the loved one who noticed that the person needs our help..to encourage them to chat me up
[5/1, 17:35] @doctormichaels: This always works
[5/1, 17:35] @doctormichaels: The sessions are friendly
[5/1, 17:36] @doctormichaels: Need to address these 3/4 issues imm and then open the floor for questions and comments
[5/1, 17:37] Participant: OK
[5/1, 17:37] @doctormichaels: There many other reasons why people have have sex..the person will be in the right place to talk
[5/1, 17:37] @doctormichaels: 1. I need to know my strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats
[5/1, 17:38] @doctormichaels: 2. My temperaments
[5/1, 17:38] @doctormichaels: 3. I need to ask myself why I act the way I do...and why I think the way I do
[5/1, 17:38] Participant: Hmmmmmm
[5/1, 17:39] @doctormichaels: In short,I need to know the good,bad and the ugly about me
[5/1, 17:39] @doctormichaels: I must be able to talk about myself more any other person on Earth
[5/1, 17:39] Participant: Mmmmm
[5/1, 17:40] @doctormichaels: I must ask myself why my father left the house
[5/1, 17:40] @doctormichaels: It's only a foolish son that insults his father for leaving his or her mum
[5/1, 17:40] @doctormichaels: Forgetting that you carry the same Gene and traits in your father and mother
[5/1, 17:41] @doctormichaels: And what makes them behave the way the do is going to also hunt us much later or sooner
[5/1, 17:41] Participant: He is at the mouth of it! 😐
[5/1, 17:43] @doctormichaels: We must ask our parents about their upbringing ...it's important...if we don't ask n we will end up not knowing what happened to them...you can bet it with me... history will always repeat itself if we don't manage the past errors of our parents
[5/1, 17:43] @doctormichaels: All these must be dealt with before going into a relationship
[5/1, 17:43] Participant: How much is this therapy? 💰💸
[5/1, 17:44] @doctormichaels: Because relationships and marriage has a way of amplifying our weaknesses
[5/1, 17:45] @doctormichaels: The details are in the folder above
[5/1, 17:45] @doctormichaels: Friendship must come before a relationship
[5/1, 17:46] @doctormichaels: The whole period from.friendship to marriage is advised to take 3-4years
[5/1, 17:46] @doctormichaels: It's Psychologically proven that it takes 3-4years to know someone well at least
[5/1, 17:47] @doctormichaels: Before starting the relationship,you need to carry out the same investigation you carried out on yourself ....you need to do the same for your partner before saying I do
[5/1, 17:47] @doctormichaels: You must ask questions
[5/1, 17:47] @doctormichaels: Directly and indirectly
[5/1, 17:48] Participant: Wow🤦♀️
[5/1, 17:48] Participant: Too long?
[5/1, 17:48] @doctormichaels: And be sure of the results of your findings...ask yourself is you are willing and capable of accommodating and liveing with the person's weaknesses and issues
[5/1, 17:48] Participant: Yes
[5/1, 17:48] Participant: Yes
[5/1, 17:49] @doctormichaels: If we rush in ....we will soon rush out
[5/1, 17:49] @doctormichaels: It's been proven over and over again
[5/1, 17:49] @doctormichaels: So should I take my time and then enjoy the rest of my life
[5/1, 17:50] Participant: I was asking for someone ni jare....
[5/1, 17:50] @doctormichaels: Or rush into...and then discovered that I should have waited
[5/1, 17:50] Participant: Sure
[5/1, 17:50] Participant: 😀😀
[5/1, 17:50] @doctormichaels: In the the recent objective annonymous online survey we did for married peoole
[5/1, 17:50] @doctormichaels: A lot said they have regrets.
[5/1, 17:51] @doctormichaels: They felt they should have waited
[5/1, 17:51] @doctormichaels: Remember two facts
[5/1, 17:51] Participant: Not really
What do I know🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
[5/1, 17:51] @doctormichaels: Destiny is not sentimental or emotional
[5/1, 17:52] @doctormichaels: So I must keep on testing my partner till I get to the altar
[5/1, 17:52] @doctormichaels: Im still allowed to still say no just before I say I do
[5/1, 17:52] @doctormichaels: Second fact is that people pretend a lot
[5/1, 17:52] Participant: Okay.
[5/1, 17:52] @doctormichaels: Whether knowingly or in knowingly
[5/1, 17:53] Participant: 😂😂😂
[5/1, 17:53] @doctormichaels: But in friendship I never talk say I love you
[5/1, 17:53] Participant: Gbam!
[5/1, 17:53] @doctormichaels: Pardon my pidgin
[5/1, 17:53] @doctormichaels: So there is no pressure to be someone else
[5/1, 17:53] Participant: You try jare....
[5/1, 17:53] @doctormichaels: People don't really change o
[5/1, 17:54] Participant: 🌚🌚🌚
[5/1, 17:54] @doctormichaels: Hmmm
[5/1, 17:54] Participant: Abi now
[5/1, 17:54] Participant: What of a relationship longer than 4,5 years
Is it good,
At times u are fed up
U kept wondering will he still marry me
U start seeing some other side of the relationship
Are these thought and feelings normal
[5/1, 17:54] @doctormichaels: It's likely he or she may remain the same
[5/1, 17:54] @doctormichaels: So can you cope
[5/1, 17:54] Participant: 🤦🏽♂
[5/1, 17:55] Participant: How? How does this 'delete and replacement' work?
*Question from group 2*
[5/1, 17:55] Participant: This is lagbaraful.....
[5/1, 17:55] @doctormichaels: Alot of married people in that survey said they knew their partners had issues with the opposite sex but they continued thinking the person will chqnge
[5/1, 17:55] Participant: Lol
Yes o
[5/1, 17:55] @doctormichaels: But it never happened
[5/1, 17:56] @doctormichaels: It's very complex..
[5/1, 17:56] Participant: Yes o......
[5/1, 17:56] @doctormichaels: It's based on the concept of the mind being
1. The force behind all that happened,is happening and will happen to us
[5/1, 17:57] @doctormichaels: 2. The mind is so powerful but yet it's the most gullible
[5/1, 17:57] Participant: Hmmm
They are being hopeful😏
[5/1, 17:57] @doctormichaels: I mean how do you explain watching a movie and then you start crying
[5/1, 17:58] @doctormichaels: I cried watching Titanic ....please don't tell anybody
[5/1, 17:58] @doctormichaels: The mind cannot differentiate a real life story from a fabricated story
[5/1, 17:58] @doctormichaels: So we use that principle
[5/1, 17:59] @doctormichaels: It's an experience you would love to have
[5/1, 17:59] Participant: APC mode loading.......... 1% (still on it) 😏
[5/1, 17:59] @doctormichaels: Now
[5/1, 17:59] Participant: Lolz
[5/1, 17:59] @doctormichaels: On the concept of love
[5/1, 17:59] Participant: No fall my hand abeg😂🤣
[5/1, 17:59] @doctormichaels: You can't claim that you love your partner or spouse without loving yourself
[5/1, 18:00] @doctormichaels: Because you can't give what you don't have
[5/1, 18:00] Participant: What kind of issues or sign can we probably tag as being extreme and could be looked out for?
[5/1, 18:00] @doctormichaels: You cant meet someone a month ago and start saying or telling the person that you love the person
[5/1, 18:00] @doctormichaels: Therefore
[5/1, 18:01] Participant: True👍🏽
[5/1, 18:01] @doctormichaels: Having a thorough knowledge of yourself is the number one step in loving yourself
[5/1, 18:02] @doctormichaels: The knowledge of of your partner or spouse is the first step in loving them
[5/1, 18:02] @doctormichaels: Love is both a feeling and a decision
[5/1, 18:02] @doctormichaels: Trust grows
[5/1, 18:03] @doctormichaels: Trust is based on your knowledge of your partner and spouse being capable of meeting your needs
[5/1, 18:03] Participant: It's possible o
[5/1, 18:03] @doctormichaels: So you need to know the love languages of yourself and your partner or spouse
[5/1, 18:04] Participant: Yes ke. Thank you my sister. Love at first sight nko o jare?
[5/1, 18:04] @doctormichaels: In a relationship,during your investigation of each other,you must ask yourself personally,do I have the capability to satisfy my partner's love languages and needs
[5/1, 18:05] Participant: But won't it last
[5/1, 18:05] @doctormichaels: It's suicidal to go all out into marriage trusting blindly
[5/1, 18:06] @doctormichaels: If you marry a woman whose love language is receiving of gifts....but you don't have money....hmm...you don enter one chance
[5/1, 18:06] @doctormichaels: Pardon my pidgin
[5/1, 18:06] Participant: It does. If it is really true....... And not some childish infatuation o.
[5/1, 18:06] @doctormichaels: Both husbands and wives are the leaders of the home
[5/1, 18:06] @doctormichaels: Or marriage
[5/1, 18:07] @doctormichaels: But the man is well equipped to provide leadership for his wife
[5/1, 18:07] @doctormichaels: Leadership is not the same thing as dictatorship
[5/1, 18:07] @doctormichaels: The number one rule in leadership is service
[5/1, 18:08] @doctormichaels: So if you are going to claim leadership
[5/1, 18:08] Participant: I laugh in China🤣🤣🤣🤣
[5/1, 18:08] @doctormichaels: You must be ready to serve your wife and not the other way round
[5/1, 18:08] @doctormichaels: You must defend her
[5/1, 18:09] @doctormichaels: Protect her from the enemy /intruder both domestic and foreign
[5/1, 18:09] @doctormichaels: You must guide her
[5/1, 18:09] @doctormichaels: Meaning you must be more mature
[5/1, 18:10] Participant: What if you love the person to show love once in a while at least in some special day, and u also do once a while
[5/1, 18:10] @doctormichaels: The second rule about leadership is that you must provide direction ...consult her for her own input
[5/1, 18:10] Participant: I mean by giving gift Sir
[5/1, 18:10] @doctormichaels: Her strengths are not meant to be threat to you
[5/1, 18:10] @doctormichaels: They are there to be your asset
[5/1, 18:11] @doctormichaels: It must be always ooo
[5/1, 18:11] @doctormichaels: Every time and everyday
[5/1, 18:11] Participant: I love this in particular👆🏻
[5/1, 18:12] @doctormichaels: If you are a man and you are blessed to be in a relationship or married to a woman that truly loves you ....omo...you don get jackpot
[5/1, 18:12] Participant: 👍
[5/1, 18:13] @doctormichaels: It's foolishness and stupidity of the highest order for a man to suppress his partner or spouse
[5/1, 18:13] @doctormichaels: Because,the way marriage is structured...if one person goes down...the other goes down ni o
[5/1, 18:13] @doctormichaels: So think twice
[5/1, 18:14] Participant: Louder!
[5/1, 18:14] @doctormichaels: The more you allow your spouse to shine...the more you will shine
[5/1, 18:14] @doctormichaels: His or her success in life is also your success
[5/1, 18:15] @doctormichaels: So if a woman loves you...omo...put her picture...place it everywhere possible
[5/1, 18:15] @doctormichaels: Celebrate hwr
[5/1, 18:15] @doctormichaels: her *
[5/1, 18:15] Participant: Hmmmm
[5/1, 18:16] @doctormichaels: Lavish her with love...because whether you willale it in life or not...is in her hands and in the hands of God
[5/1, 18:16] @doctormichaels: If a woman that truly loves you prays for you
[5/1, 18:16] @doctormichaels: Hmm
[5/1, 18:16] @doctormichaels: Impossible doors will open to you even from the relationship stage
[5/1, 18:17] @doctormichaels: So, remember that as you beat your wife...bad mouthing her...exposing her to danger ...you are also beating your destiny
[5/1, 18:18] @doctormichaels: Before marriage,both of them are equal
[5/1, 18:18] @doctormichaels: But after marriage, something happens
[5/1, 18:19] Participant: Wat if the relationship is up to 10-12 years
[5/1, 18:19] @doctormichaels: A smart woman makes a choice to remove her crown and take the second position in the marriage
[5/1, 18:19] @doctormichaels: Wow...it's not really how long ...but what did you do during those periods
[5/1, 18:20] @doctormichaels: Did you have sex for the 80-90percent of the time
[5/1, 18:20] Participant: What professionals can be recommended to help an individual? How can one get in contact with them ?
[5/1, 18:20] @doctormichaels: You can contact us at Quantum Leap Consulting
[5/1, 18:20] @doctormichaels: This one means you have destroyed the marriage already
[5/1, 18:21] @doctormichaels: It is dead on arrival
[5/1, 18:21] @doctormichaels: You guys are strangers to each other
[5/1, 18:21] Participant: This one sweet me
[5/1, 18:21] @doctormichaels: The marriage may not last
[5/1, 18:22] Participant: Typical...... Every lady must like this point. Issokay!
[5/1, 18:22] @doctormichaels: We also advise against long distance marriage when the foundation of friendship has not been laid via physical presence
[5/1, 18:22] @doctormichaels: So this is submission
[5/1, 18:22] @doctormichaels: The woman makes that choice
[5/1, 18:22] Participant: How about before now?
[5/1, 18:23] @doctormichaels: But that does not mean she should do it at the expense of her life assignment and identity
[5/1, 18:23] @doctormichaels: Remember,as far as I know,there is no marriage or husband or wife in heaven
[5/1, 18:24] Participant: Chaii.....feel fly. Na una time.
[5/1, 18:24] @doctormichaels: The only thing that persist after death is if you have fulfilled your life assignment
[5/1, 18:24] @doctormichaels: God the Creator is like a business man or woman
[5/1, 18:25] @doctormichaels: He didn't give you that hawt face or body for nothing o
[5/1, 18:25] @doctormichaels: He will ask for returns of investment
[5/1, 18:25] @doctormichaels: And you can be sure,He won't be smiling if you start stammering
[5/1, 18:26] @doctormichaels: True submission is not forced
[5/1, 18:26] @doctormichaels: It's volunry
[5/1, 18:26] @doctormichaels: So in marriage
[5/1, 18:26] @doctormichaels: 3-4 times of sex in a week advisable
[5/1, 18:27] @doctormichaels: Effective communication that grows based on continuous understanding of each other
[5/1, 18:27] Participant: 😳
[5/1, 18:27] Participant: Ok
[5/1, 18:28] @doctormichaels: If there is a marital crisis that threatens the survival of home...a professional help is neeeded
[5/1, 18:28] Participant: Really
[5/1, 18:28] Participant: What's the disadvantage if its lesser or say your partner wants more?
[5/1, 18:28] @doctormichaels: You cant deal with a crisis on your own
[5/1, 18:28] @doctormichaels: Yeah that reminds me
[5/1, 18:28] @doctormichaels: When you are in a relationship
[5/1, 18:28] @doctormichaels: Emotions naturally blocks our clear judgement
[5/1, 18:29] @doctormichaels: So there are many things that we will miss in our investigation
[5/1, 18:29] @doctormichaels: So you need to ask people in your life who have proven over time that they have your interest at heart
[5/1, 18:30] @doctormichaels: Ask them..what do you guys think about my gf or bf
[5/1, 18:30] @doctormichaels: Be very open to their comments
[5/1, 18:30] @doctormichaels: Don't shut them down
[5/1, 18:30] @doctormichaels: Allow them to freely talk
[5/1, 18:31] @doctormichaels: If you are mature enough and truly ready for marriage,you will carefully assess their comments with an open mind
[5/1, 18:32] @doctormichaels: You must assure them you you will not discuss their comments or their names with your partner
[5/1, 18:32] @doctormichaels: This is important because you are in love ...they are not in love
[5/1, 18:32] @doctormichaels: So they can see clearly
[5/1,Participant: Wao
[5/1, 18:33] @doctormichaels: Third party is a major cause of separation and divorce
[5/1, 18:33] @doctormichaels: You must run away from it
[5/1, 18:33] @doctormichaels: A professional is not a third party
[5/1, 18:33] @doctormichaels: So what is the definition of a third party
[5/1, 18:33] Participant: 😄😄
Àwá má ríìdí ni!(The unsearchable God)
[5/1, 18:34] Participant: Who is a third party Sir ?
Telling it friends about ur man Or seeking for their opinion in ur relationship are they third party
[5/1, 18:35] @doctormichaels: A third party is someone who is emotionally attached to you maybe by family tie and who disregards the structure of marriage to enforce their selfish or unselfish biased agenda
[5/1, 18:35] @doctormichaels: The role of a professional is clear
[5/1, 18:35] Participant: Sir
Is your spiritual leader also a third party sir?
[5/1, 18:35] Participant: Oh
Okay 👍🏼
[5/1, 18:35] @doctormichaels: His or her role is not to make the decision for the couple...his or her role is to investigate professionally
[5/1, 18:36] @doctormichaels: Gather the facts together
[5/1, 18:37] @doctormichaels: And present it to both couples for them to critically look and assess the assessment of the professional together and take the much needed well informed ,responsive (but not reactive )decision
[5/1, 18:38] @doctormichaels: A response is a positive ,rational,non emotional,unbiased and well planned out and thought out decision
[5/1, 18:38] Participant: Market don finish for shop
He has already surveyed so I won't blame him if the relationship ended in tears
[5/1, 18:39) Participant: Are u saying now, that their nothing like God's will?
*Question from other group*
[5/1, 18:39] @doctormichaels: While a reaction is a negative,irrational,sentimental ,emotional,not well thought out plan based on no logical reasoning
[5/1, 18:39] @doctormichaels: Or inform
[5/1, 18:39] @doctormichaels: information*
[5/1, 18:39] @doctormichaels: Hmmm
[5/1, 18:39] Participant: He said in marriage not dating.....
[5/1, 18:39] Participant: Better o
[5/1, 18:41] @doctormichaels: Our spiritual leaders except they have insight into marriages and they have handled well enough cases successful with results ....they may not be able to handle some issues...don't forget that spiritual leaders have their specialty
[5/1, 18:41] @doctormichaels: I'm a Christian for example
[5/1, 18:41] @doctormichaels: Some of our spiritual leaders are evangelists
[5/1, 18:42] @doctormichaels: Some are pastors etc....there is a lot of work there..so our advise to spiritual leaders is to have a professional at standby
[5/1, 18:43] Participant: Hmmmm
Okay
[5/1, 18:43] @doctormichaels: Or involve a professional in the management of the case
[5/1, 18:43] @doctormichaels: Thank you so much for this beautiful question
[5/1, 18:44] @doctormichaels: God is central to HELPIng us in making the decision
[5/1, 18:44] @doctormichaels: Did you notice that the word HELP is in capital
[5/1, 18:44] @doctormichaels: Like I said earlier
[5/1, 18:45] @doctormichaels: It's only a fool and immature fellow that says it was God who chose my partner for me ...I was not involved
[5/1, 18:45] @doctormichaels: So in the process of choice , regardless of our religion ,it's a partnership between us and God
[5/1, 18:45] @doctormichaels: 50/50
[5/1, 18:46] Participant: Deep
[5/1, 18:46] @doctormichaels: His role is to provide needed counsel in making the right decision but He is not the one that will make the final decision
[5/1, 18:47] @doctormichaels: You are going to have to make the final decision based on what you have gotten ,findings from the professional and the findings from God
[5/1, 18:47] @doctormichaels: Let's make it clear here
[5/1, 18:47] @doctormichaels: And very clear
[5/1, 18:48] @doctormichaels: No matter whatever happens in your relationship and marriage...you cannot hold God responsible
[5/1, 18:48] @doctormichaels: Whether good or bad
[5/1, 18:49] @doctormichaels: Hence you must constantly build capacity for life till you exit the world and be a professional learner ....always learning .... understand ing and asking questions
[5/1, 18:49] @doctormichaels: The proof of understanding is asking questions
[5/1, 18:49] Participant: Okay
[5/1, 18:49] @doctormichaels: There are 3 ways of building capacity
[5/1, 18:50] @doctormichaels: 1. Have a sincere transparent relationship with God...
Tell Him when you have sexual orgies
[5/1, 18:50] @doctormichaels: Discuss with Him like a friend
[5/1, 18:50] @doctormichaels: When boys gather
[5/1, 18:51] @doctormichaels: They talk about girls
[5/1, 18:51] @doctormichaels: When girls gather
[5/1, 18:51] @doctormichaels: They talk about boys
[5/1, 18:51] @doctormichaels: Imagine having a boy talk or girl talk with God !
[5/1, 18:51] Participant: Hmmm
[5/1, 18:52] Participant: So sweet😀
[5/1, 18:53] @doctormichaels: 2. Read books
Reading books is a powerful phenomenon...because it's an active concept not passive .Words are powerful...and through words we pass on our spirit and life ....so become like the person we listen to the most....you can't eat with Giants and remain a dwarf
[5/1, 18:54] @doctormichaels: Through books men and women of old pour out their souls into us so that we can repeat their exploits and even do more
[5/1, 18:54] Participant: What if you talk to God and you don't hear anything?
[5/1, 18:54] Participant: Not everybody hears from God, you know.
[5/1, 18:54] Participant: What do you do if God doesn't say anything back?
[5/1, 18:55] @doctormichaels: If you can't read...you are not ready for a relationship...you are a disaster waiting to happen...it's only a fool that will ask you out or say yes to you
[5/1, 18:55] @doctormichaels: God always speaks
[5/1, 18:55] @doctormichaels: Just tell Him about that hawt girl
[5/1, 18:55] @doctormichaels: How you feel
[5/1, 18:55] Participant: That last statement hit me! Wow.
[5/1, 18:55] @doctormichaels: Don't start quoting scriptures o
[5/1, 18:55] Participant: Word👍🏼
[5/1, 18:55] @doctormichaels: It's time to be real with Him
[5/1, 18:55] @doctormichaels: Chai
[5/1, 18:56] @doctormichaels: Once you are real...He speak through the best option
[5/1, 18:56] @doctormichaels: It will be very loud
[5/1, 18:57] @doctormichaels: So we advise people to start up a relationship with God early in life ....
[5/1, 18:57] Participant: Is there any hope for an Atheist?
[5/1, 18:57] @doctormichaels: Having a true sincere relationship with God ahead of time helps to know if He is the one speaking or it's our mind
[5/1, 18:58] @doctormichaels: There is a fantastic hope ...thanks Seun
[5/1, 18:58] @doctormichaels: I have clients that are atheist
[5/1, 18:58] Participant: 💯👏🏾
[5/1, 18:58] Participant: Hummm
[5/1, 18:58] @doctormichaels: Whether someone believss in God or not does not remove the involvement of God in that person
[5/1, 18:59] @doctormichaels: Only that the person has placed a limitation on the e relationship
[5/1, 19:00] Participant: That's Right
[5/1, 19:00] @doctormichaels: I'm a product of the fact that God exist...can you remember the story I started this discussion with?
[5/1, 19:00] @doctormichaels: Without Him ...I won't be where I am today
[5/1, 19:00] @doctormichaels: He directed people my way
[5/1, 19:00] @doctormichaels: He directed books my way
[5/1, 19:01] @doctormichaels: There is a time in marriage where our love will be tested regardless of whether it is true love or fake love
[5/1, 19:02] @doctormichaels: There will be trials that go seem to go beyond our capacity
[5/1, 19:02] @doctormichaels: It is at this time that your relationship with a Higher being will be of help
[5/1, 19:02] @doctormichaels: An atheist has hope
[5/1, 19:02] @doctormichaels: One way or the other
[5/1, 19:03] @doctormichaels: Sincere atheist still communicate with God one way or the other
[5/1, 19:03] @doctormichaels: May be not in the way most of do
[5/1, 19:03] @doctormichaels: In conclusion
[5/1, 19:04] @doctormichaels: 3. The company of people we keep
Do they tolerate us
[5/1, 19:04] @doctormichaels: Do they celebrate us
[5/1, 19:04] @doctormichaels: Do they challenge us
[5/1, 19:04] @doctormichaels: Conclusion
[5/1, 19:05] @doctormichaels: I asked my first girl friend out when I was 18. She asked for my favorite color but I couldn't answer
[5/1, 19:05] @doctormichaels: Because I didn't prepare for that question...I prepared for other questions
[5/1, 19:05] @doctormichaels: 😀🤦🏻♂️
[5/1, 19:06] @doctormichaels: Of course she later said no
[5/1, 19:06] @doctormichaels: But what pained me was that I didn't know my favorite color
[5/1, 19:06] @doctormichaels: So I asked myself
[5/1, 19:07] @doctormichaels: Ayodele,if you don't know your favorite color...what exactly do you know about yourself
[5/1, 19:07] Participant: 😄
[5/1, 19:07] Participant: Hmmmmmm
[5/1, 19:07] @doctormichaels: That was what started a long journey of me asking myself more than 200 questions
[5/1, 19:07] Participant: Hmmm
[5/1, 19:07] @doctormichaels: That can be summarised into the 3 fundamental questions of life
[5/1, 19:08] @doctormichaels: 1. Who am i
[5/1, 19:08] @doctormichaels: 2. Why am I here on Earth
[5/1, 19:08] @doctormichaels: 3. Do I have a future ?
How do I plan to explore my future possibilities
[5/1, 19:08] @doctormichaels: I rest my case here
[5/1, 19:09] @doctormichaels: I hope i made sense
[5/1, 19:09] @doctormichaels: I hope it was not a waste of your time and data
[5/1, 19:09] Participant: Very well
[5/1, 19:09] Participant: Yes Doc. Bravo thank you sir 👏👏
[5/1, 19:09] Participant: In a lot of ways sir. Thank you.
[5/1, 19:09] @doctormichaels: Questions!!!
[5/1, 19:09] Participant: A whole lot of sense sir
[5/1, 19:10] Participant: Yes sir
ve learnt a whole lot today
[5/1, 19:10] Participant: I learnt alot today thank you sir
[5/1, 19:10] Participant: You really make sense sir, welldone Dr.
[5/1, 19:11] Participant: God bless you sir
To think that this is free🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
We appreciate
[5/1, 19:11] Participant: Lots of sense here👍🏻👍🏻
[5/1, 19:11] Participant: Bless*
[5/1, 19:11] Participant: Thanks so much doc
I really learnt alot☺☺☺
[5/1, 19:13] @doctormichaels: Thank you for this opportunity that you all have given us
[5/1, 19:13] @doctormichaels: We are grateful
[5/1, 19:13] @doctormichaels: Thank you for being patient with us
[5/1, 19:13] @doctormichaels: We celebrate, honour and love you
[5/1, 19:14] @doctormichaels: Please check the documents we sent earlier
[5/1, 19:14] Participant: We love you too.......
[5/1, 19:14] Participant: Thank you
May God Almighty increase you more
[5/1, 19:15] @doctormichaels: It contains how you can reach us both on social media and other w
ays
[5/1, 19:15] @doctormichaels: You can private chat me
[5/1, 19:15] @doctormichaels: The group will be opened for another one hour tonight
[5/1, 19:15] Participant: My Questions is somehow off this discussion but I will like you to share more light on it....Can a girl get married to her EX or a guy get married to his EX after like 2yrs seperation but they never stopped talking?
[5/1, 19:16] @doctormichaels: For questions,comments , contribution,inputs ,additions,subtractions, clarification and correction plus rebuke
[5/1, 19:18] @doctormichaels: We will close the group in an hour's time and open it again tomorrow 10am till 11am for comments and questions and at 11am tomorrow we will draw the curtain for this event officially
[5/1, 19:19] @doctormichaels: If our free online certificates of Participation is ready we will send it to you via your email already filled in the FREE registration form via the registration link
[5/1, 19:20] Participant: Okay sir
[5/1, 19:20] @doctormichaels: We have answered all the questions you asked in the registration form...we will post them tonight or tomorrow as a file
[5/1, 19:20] @doctormichaels: It's very easy ..they should apologize to each other and start from where they stopped
[5/1, 19:21] @doctormichaels: You can exit the group now or wait till the official drawing of curtain at 11am tomorrow
[5/1, 19:22] @doctormichaels: Thank you.We will close for today at 8pm
[5/1, 19:43] Participant: Thank you sir. My question is, you said 3-4 years is ideal for a relationship b4 marriage. How about those that are of age, let say a lady in her 30s,can she still wait that long before getting married?
[5/1, 19:43] @doctormichaels: Oh thanks Folashade ..it's a wonderful question.I have been waiting for it
[5/1, 19:45] @doctormichaels: For such people maybe a year or two....but they must be ready to work hard at it...it should not be a long distance relationship...a lot of physical presence is needed to building a solid relationship...that will sustain any kind of marriage.
[5/1, 19:46] @doctormichaels: Such couples are not expected to waste time
[5/1, 19:47] @doctormichaels: It starts with
Friendship
Relationship
Courtship
Engagement (introduction of families)
Marriage
[5/1, 19:48] @doctormichaels: The seriousness of the relationship is expected to be higher alongside commitment ....increasing from friendship to marriage
[5/1, 19:48] @doctormichaels: But you can drop at any level just before saying I do
[5/1, 19:48] @doctormichaels: Did I answer your question ma ?
[5/1, 19:49] Participant: Thank you very much sir.
[5/1, 19:49] Participant: You did.
[5/1, 19:49] @doctormichaels: Oh great to hear and know
[5/1, 19:49] @doctormichaels: Thank you for asking
[5/1, 19:50] Participant: 👍🏼
[5/1, 19:50] Participant: 🙏🏽🙏🏽
[5/1, 20:37] Participant: Thanks so much Doctor🙏🥰🥰🥰🙌🙌🙌.This is really impacting.
[5/1, 21:17] Participant: I have read through and digested, it really educating and helpful.
Thanks Doc. More grace
[5/2, 05:47] Participant: My question;
How can being a rape victim not affect one's present relationship?
[5/2, 05:47] Participant: By a professional, do you mean seeing a therapist?
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: Thanks for the question.The rape victim will need to deal with the psychological trauma due to the rape.This is done with the help of a professional.
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: Did I answer your question?
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: Yes ma
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: She may also have an extreme perspective about men ...she may not get married or might jump from one relationship to another...complaining why there is no true love ...or that all men are cheats...not knowing it's a transferred aggression...there are more examples ...but let us stop here
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: Either they are extremely sexually active ...with extreme sexual drive and desires ...to the point that their spouses may end up complaining of too much sex like we saw yesterday...or demanding for sexual activities that the spouse is not comfortable with
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: For example,our delete and replacement therapy,has proven to be of help.It helps to deal with the psychological wound or trauma caused by the rape.
People who experienced rape ,male or female ,tend to have two extreme reactions
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: The other extreme is the person completely run away from sex...or avoids it...so in marriage,the other spouse is wondering why his wife is not super not always interested in sex ...leading to her grudgingly accepting to have sex with him once a month.God bless that marriage,if the husband does not have a high sex drive ...he may survive for a while...imagine what can happen if the husband has high sex drive just like an average guy does... marital crisis looms
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: How's that going to help?
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: Yeah
Thanks
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: I hope I tried
[5/2, 05:47] @doctormichaels: Okay great
[5/2, 11:17] Participant: Thanks Doc. It was a very revealing session.
[5/2, 11:17] @doctormichaels: Wow
[5/2, 11:17] @doctormichaels: Thankyou
[5/2, 11:18] @doctormichaels: Thank you
[5/2, 11:18] @doctormichaels: Thank you
[5/2, 18:01] Participant: After dating for 3-4yrs and an offence came up that made u want to quite..... Do u then start another relationship 3-4yrs again?
[5/2, 18:23] Participant: Thanks
[5/2, 18:27] Participant: I have a question
[5/2, 18:28] Participant: How should persons living with disabilities that have relationships react to rejection from their partner's family
[5/2, 23:01] Participant: That is the society we found ourselves. People that look down on persons with disability are ignorant. All I can say about that is once the partner has
accepted him/her then the person shld convince the parent.
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