IF YOU CANT,WALK AWAY FROM THE RELATIONSHIP before the WEDDING

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Hiya 👋Self lover 🧡


      All women have one form of unfathomable  nonsense perspective or character that they are managing at different stages of their lives (whether they look like angels or not ; religious or not ; God-fearing or not ) either related to their high level of intelligence or hormones responsible for menses 


…and they are to take responsibility for every form of that nonsense unfathomable perspective & character


     Another thing that women really need apart from training on DECISION-MAKING is TAKING RESPONSIBILITY 


     If she has difficulty taking responsibility for her life,she will have difficulty taking responsibility for her marriage or others


     A lot of work still needs to be done in teaching a child  (male & female) about the importance of taking responsibility for his/her life especially here in Africa …how can you teach your children when you don’t even know how to take responsibility for your own life 


Asking people to hold God Almighty responsible for whatever happens to them is asking a player to call in his coach to play for the team


 Back to what I was going to share 😂


Do an objective assessment of the nonsense perspective & character that your woman has and marry her IF you can manage it …plan to educate her on it later but don’t plan to change her . The power for the latter solely lies with her 


If you can’t manage it,walk away before the wedding 


Take back the CONTROL of your life!

Be intentional 

…you are the only Ceo of your life

#doctormichaels

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