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IF YOU CANT,WALK AWAY FROM THE RELATIONSHIP before the WEDDING

Hiya ๐Ÿ‘‹Self lover ๐Ÿงก       All women have one form of unfathomable  nonsense perspective or character that they are managing at different stages of their lives (whether they look like angels or not ; religious or not ; God-fearing or not ) either related to their high level of intelligence or hormones responsible for menses  …and they are to take responsibility for every form of that nonsense unfathomable perspective & character      Another thing that women really need apart from training on DECISION-MAKING is TAKING RESPONSIBILITY       If she has difficulty taking responsibility for her life,she will have difficulty taking responsibility for her marriage or others      A lot of work still needs to be done in teaching a child  (male & female) about the importance of taking responsibility for his/her life especially here in Africa …how can you teach your children when you don’t even know how to take...

THE KIND OF MAN A WOMAN WANT

 Hiya ๐Ÿ‘‹ Self lover ๐Ÿงก Understanding Women 68 Here is why lots of women prefer alpha male to nice guys ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿพ Everything in life is about perception since what controls the God-created Universe is your mental health  Women perceive alpha males to be stronger leaders than nice guys  They feel nice guys are weak Yeah!  I know what you are thinking ๐Ÿคฃ It ends up landing them into trouble shey ? I want you for few seconds ,imagine being a woman  You have 2 things (high level of intelligence & hormonal levels especially during 3 weeks of preparation for menses ,ovulation & menses itself ) inside you that could make you self sabotage You will want someone who could help you or join forces with you to prevent you from self sabotaging yourself  Am I right ? So that is also the thought of women  Alpha males present themselves as being very strong physically & emotionally while nice guys do not  Alpha males “present” themselves as people that coul...

LYING & HEALTH Issues

 Hiya ๐Ÿ‘‹ Self lover ๐Ÿงก RELATIONSHIP between LYING and PHYSICAL & MENTAL Health Issues        Lying is defined as presenting the altered or false version of an event to another person or group of people for various reasons      The interesting is that it’s not just about the lie but also about the person lying  Secondly, for you to lie,it means you need to present another personality separate from your true self identity  Please note that whenever you develop a personality that deviates  from your true identity you compromise your mental health Mental health has majorly the MIND and EMOTIONS  Your mind via your thought forms your emotions  Every physical life experience and outcome you have had in your life were created by your EMOTIONS  Your ACTIONS/BEHAVIOR and WORDS are formed by your EMOTIONS So when you lie,you compromise your mind and emotions  The moment this happens,you will become emotionally stressed...

The Story of a single lady in a sexual relationship with a married man

  Hey ๐Ÿ‘‹ Self lover ๐Ÿงก     There is  a single lady  client who is in an intimate relationship with a married man She a recovering people pleaser (childhood trauma,which is its basis has been dealt with& now she is in therapy to fill the space previously occupied by trauma) and currently undergoing s*x therapy sessions  During her sex therapy sessions,i discovered she was not really interested in sex but affection . She majorly  has sex with this man and others before him because that was what they wanted  In the cause of her sessions she discovered she would  be excited & horny at the beginning of the sex but start becoming angry ๐Ÿ˜ก in the course of the sex and at the end of the act  She then becomes angry with herself & the person subconsciously  Why?  In addition to feeling guilty of having it with a married man,she wasn’t getting what she wanted (affection and satisfaction of her 2 predominant love languages) whi...