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 Episode 12,Mindshift, petals102.3Fm, every Thursday 10:45am (Nigeria Time) . Listen live www.petalsfm.com.ng  "Doctor Michaels,how do I deal with bitterness affecting my perception of people,relationships,productivity and fulfillment in life?I seem to repel good people." Answer:      Our emotions are immense energies within us that ultimately determine our outlook on life,how we relate with people ,productivity and performance at the workplace ,the events and people we attract and the eventual outcome of our lives.        This is because we are the creators of our realities through our thoughts,emotions,words,and actions as well as the eventual outcome of our lives.       Bitterness is a negative energy. It reduces our productivity,performance.It increases the rate of suspicion and makes us repel good people but attract negative people.It increases the occurrences and events we don't like .       Bitterne...

 No matter what life throws at you,the eventual outcome of your life is still dependent on your final approval just the same way whatever happens in a company is dependent on whatever is approved by the chief executive of that company.Yes!That is how important you are.No force can stop you. The eventual outcome of your life is not dependent on God but on YOU! How far you will ever go in life is dependent on you and not on God. God has given you all that you need to work with. All He does now is to provide the necessary guidance you need to discover those treasures in you. Stop asking God to do what He has already done. You have been doing that for so long...yet little or no results. How long will you continue to waste time and energy ? Get up today and take charge of your life.  If you don't take charge,who will? Doctor Michaels,  Self Actualization and Personal Therapy Program 

  Nothing you do to/for him will ever change his perspective of you. He maltreates  you as a coping mechanism to deal with his hidden childhood wounds. You need to rise above his perception of you. You are a queen. You have royalty in your blood. You deserve more. You are a blessing to any man and society. Your place is not the second position except in marriage,where you voluntarily take the second position after your husband for the sake of order.Though you still remain a leader in your home and at the same time submissive to your husband. The success of a home is dependent on you. You are crucial to the success of a marriage. Step forward...remove the garment that the society has put on you to silence and cage you. You are as special as any other man. You are equal to anyman. Fulfill your dream ...maximize your potential...get healing for your wounds...be filled with hope...get every possible help. You are pivotal to the survival of the human race. Develop ...

  She brings in light, beauty and flavor into the world. She makes the impossible possible! Her absence squeezes out life out of the world. Silencing her spells doom on the earth. She is the key to the future...the key to the sustainable development and growth of the earth and the world. She is a rare breed. Special and dynamic in everyway! Inspiration,creativity and innovation floods her path. Faithful ,wise,mature and smart men adore ,honour and respect her. Foolish and immature men try to pull her down. Yes!There is something called the blessing of a woman. She is so important that God and the universe suspend the prayer of a husband who maltreates her. To step on her is to step and destroy your destiny She is strong.Her prayers are deep ,goes down to the root and bring forth lasting impact. It's a blessing to have her in your life. If you have a woman in your life who believes in you ...loves you...then yo...

 Please say after me, I relate with people with respect,love and humility as well as empathy. I am also assertive at the same time. I know when to talk and when to keep quiet. I know how to respond to people,things and events. I respond to things,people and events in life. The world is my domain and I reign in life. I think thoughts,express emotions,speak words,take actions,take steps,make choices that help me attract the right kind of people into my life today. Today is mine. The world is mine. I am excited about today. Doctor Michaels,  Self Actualization and Personal Therapy Program.

 " I am a married woman but have difficulty enjoying intimate time with my husband.This intimacy generally reminds me of the sexual abuse I experienced as a child.I find it difficult talking with my husband about these two things.My workplace performance and productivity is already suffering because of this.What should I do Doctor Michaels " why should she talk to her husband about it 1. It will bring clarity to her husband's concerns about what is happening in the marriage. 2. It will be a step in the right direction in helping him understand why she behaves the way she does 3. It will help him to know how he can be of help especially in supporting her adequately 4. It will help them to know what and how to get help together 5. It helps the husband also feel he can be open to her and also feel safe being vulnerable with her 6. It helps to build trust between the two 7. It helps their love become stronger 8. It's no longer one person's fight but two ...