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IMPORTANCE OF KNOWING THE PAST SEXUAL HISTORY OF OUR PARTNERS/SPOUSES

  INTRODUCTION  There are two major  marital problems that are capable of bringing about marital instability.   They are sexual problems and issues surrounding fulfillment of the life assignment of either of the partners.     Are you surprised ? Yeah! I knew you weren't expecting those answers or one of them.    They are actually the major primary marital problems.Every other thing is secondary.    My experience in therapy has proven this over and over again.    In this article we will discuss one of the two.That is,sexual problems.There are several causes of sexual problems. Two of them are previous sexual abuse of one of the partners/spouses as a child mostly and sexual incompatibility.      Again,we will only discuss sexual incompatibility in this brief chat.     Sexual incompatibility can be defined as the existence of a sexual problem due to non-alignment of  sexual ideas ,beliefs and experien...

Dealing with fear,anxiety and uncertainty

 Wow!Episode 13 Mindshift program(Dealing with Emotional Trauma)on petals 102.3Fm we  ended up talking about handling fear,anxiety and uncertainty not only in our individual lives and families but also as a country.The highlight : Our problem is not just the fact that we don't have a Nigerian Dream but also that many individuals and families don't have dreams,visions,mission statements of their own that they are currently working with. I am optimistic about the Nigerian project! Episode 13: Hi Doctor Michaels, I am afraid of success,failure and uncertainty.I get scared of stepping out to achieving my goals in life.What should I do ? Is this normal ? INTRODUCTION           Thankyou for your question .         Fear in a matter is a negative,reactive emotion to a  danger due to a knowledge defect on that particular matter       Fear is also a natural reflex response to a real physical danger such as a li...